Singer Tems Opens Up About Her Childhood Struggles and Dealing with Toxic Behavior in the Music Industry

Temilade ‘Tems’ Openiyi

IN a recent interview, Nigerian singer Tems bared her soul, sharing her experiences growing up and navigating the music industry. Tems revealed that her childhood was marked by constant belittling and bullying from her peers, who viewed her as “annoying” and “slow.”

She recounted how her friends would mock her, saying, “Why are you so slow? Why are you talking so slow? Talk like you're alive.”

Tems, however, refused to be silenced, responding with assertive comebacks like, “You're very stupid. Are you crazy?”

Tems' words highlight the painful reality of being a victim of bullying and toxic behavior. Her story serves as a reminder that the words and actions of others can have a lasting impact on our self-esteem and confidence.

Additionally, to sharing her childhood struggles, Tems also spoke about the music industry, stating that many men have obvious intentions and agendas, seeking only to exploit and discard. Her courage in speaking out against these injustices is a testament to her strength and resilience.

Tems' story is a powerful reminder of the importance of self-acceptance, empowerment, and speaking out against toxic behavior. Her voice is a beacon of hope for those who have faced similar struggles, and her music continues to inspire and uplift fans around the world.