SUNDAY TEA - LIFE AS I SEE IT

Some women say they want provider men, but what they really want is sugar daddies. If you want a man to pay your bills but you also don't want to cook, clean, and cater to him, you're looking for a sugar daddy. You don't want the man; you just want his money. Many of you haven't gotten what you want because you're inconsistent about what it is that you want.

Men who feel they have a right to cheat, mistreat, and disrespect you simply because they are providers are Scars, not Mufasas. Scar abused his power as KING; Mufasa used his power to advance those who trusted him to provide, protect, and lead. So if your "King" (or head of household) views himself as above or more important than those he is responsible for, you're under a poor leadership!

There is no such thing as "we are dating exclusively but not in a relationship." Either we are together or we are not.

You know that turn-off feeling you get when a man thinks he's the prize or wants to be treated like the woman? Yeah, that's the same turn-off feeling men get when you try to act or be like the man in the relationship (masculina).