EYES ARE THE WINDOWS TO THE SOUL

She walked in like a hurricane, man was taken by her unexpected appearance. He couldn't help but stare uncontrollably - his friend became embarrassed and nudged him to stop staring which wasn't oblivious to him since they were sitting next to each other. Girl didn't know the havoc she stirred in his heart that day onwards. Eyes blazing with wild fire and attraction spelt all his intentions without him saying a word......  

As we should have come to terms with, Eye contact is the strongest form of nonverbal communication, and if your partner constantly does it with you! Oh my, you're in for a ride. From birth to death and all occasions in between, the eyes will always have it. Its the gateway to the heart.

When you meet someone for the first time and you fall in love with them or like them instantly, what do you attribute that likeness to? It's the face! You are actually attracted by the person's face, especially the eyes. The eye is where the attraction begins.

Keep Looking, Baby

She has had her share of failed relationships and she believe she's in a better place now. A place where she can recognize genuine love and intention when she see it. It's in the eyes.

Generally speaking, we are all naturally attracted to faces, especially eyes. The human face is associated with our identity; we are recognized more through our eyes than through any other facial feature. That's why your passport photograph in an identity card is enough proof for the person(s) concerned.

One of the best ways to stay emotionally connected is physical connection, and what better way than to stare or gaze lovingly at your partner's face every time? After all, it is the point where two hearts are closest.

How much we look into someone's eyes not only helps establish intimacy, but also reveals how much intimacy that might be already existing. We say a lot with our eyes - The eyes say it all.

When you and your partner share a loving look, you are not only matching with your feelings - you are matching with your beings. Though sometimes she feel shy which she's still trying to unravel why.

Focusing on what your eyes and your partner's eyes say through looks of appreciation, fascination, and security can speak volumes of your love and keep it fresh.

How your partner stares at you (both indoors and out) is a true indicator of why you are so very special to him/her. Your partner can validate you, warm your heart, and reveal a great sense of gratitude and contentment that you're a part of his/her life. Your partner can also make you feel that everything and everyone else is invisible except for you sitting right next to him/her.

Now, the deal is to find out; How do we remain that in love? How can my attraction and desire for my spouse grow instead of fade over time?

I believe it is possible. Solomon was able to do just that. In Song of Solomon, Solomon says his love for his bride has not diminished since their wedding night, even though other women are available to him. The depth of love they experienced started with a daily decision to choose each other above all others.

With the eyes as the "window to the soul," when the Beloved looks into the eyes of the one He loves, He sees His Spirit gazing back at Him. She "ravishes His heart with just one glance of her eye" (Songs of Solomon 4:9). 

The eyes have it.

Gosh, she wholeheartedly love the way her man looks at her each and every day. She hear his eyes talking to her when she look at them. It's wonderful.

Can the above justify the notion that men are moved by what they see?