‘Stop Putting Price Tags on Your Kpēkús’ —Uriel Oputa Slams Nigerian Women for Monetizing Relationships

Uriel Oputa

URIEL Oputa, a reality TV star, has sparked a heated debate by criticizing Nigerian women for monetizing their relationships. In a candid social media post, she lamented that women are increasingly expecting men to pay for their expenses, even on the first date, and questioned why self-respect has been replaced with price tags.

Oputa expressed concern that the desperation and wickedness prevalent in today's society are leading to a culture of transactional relationships, where women expect financial compensation for their companionship. She emphasized that while it's acceptable to appreciate financial support, it's essential to maintain respect and reciprocity in relationships.

 She words: “We are living in desperate Times. Ladies how did we get to the stage of asking a guy you just met to pay for your hair, so you can go on a Date with him.?? Why can't we have respect for ourselves?? Why must we bill at every opportunity?? Even if he gives you money let it be out of Respect. Why are we putting price Tags on our Private Area?? Is it Plantain? We are living is Desperate Times Wickedness full every where The Rich and poor No dey smile. Pls evaluate your Favourite because they could potentially land you 6 ft under.

“I love a Man to look after me but just also be willing to look after him too Honestly with the way things are I would advise my brother not to Date Nigerian women.”

The TV star went as far as advising her brother against dating Nigerian women, citing the dangers of such transactional relationships. Her words have sparked a mix of reactions, with some agreeing that the monetization of relationships has gone too far, while others argue that women should be able to expect financial support in a relationship.

Oputa's post has ignited a necessary conversation about the state of relationships in Nigeria and the importance of maintaining respect, reciprocity, and healthy boundaries. As she aptly put it, Let's evaluate our priorities and avoid potentially deadly consequences.